It's Cold Outside: Self-Care to Manage Winter Blues and Reduce Suicide Risk
Winter is here. Children are playing in the snow, Vail and Beaver Creek Mountains are open, and locals and tourists alike are living it up skiing and snowboarding. Everyone seems happy, but you. You aren't alone. Changes in seasons - especially to the darker, colder winter season - can be challenging. You’ve probably heard about the “winter blues” or seasonal depression. Sometimes, winter blues can morph into seasonal affective disorder (SAD). Each year, around five percent of Americans experience SAD, with four out of five people affected being women.
The holiday season in early winter brings its own set of stressors that can exacerbate your feelings of sadness and anxiety. You might be working multiple jobs to get by or be living far from family. It might be financial stress or intense family dynamics that make your depression or stress levels explode. Some people with winter blues might even experience severe suicidal thoughts.
The good news is you can minimize these feelings by developing a personalized self-care plan for yourself and sticking to it.
Understanding Winter Blues
The winter blues is a form of depression that usually happens during the colder months. For most people, the signs begin in the fall, last through the winter, and end in the spring. It can also occur because of the reduced amount of sunshine we experience compared to the spring and summer months.
The winter holidays bring unique stressors, including financial pressure, social outings or lack there of, and family drama. Some people feel isolated because they don't live close to their families or can't afford to go for a holiday visit.
Recognizing Signs of Seasonal Depression and Holiday Stress
You need to know how to recognize the most common signs and symptoms of winter blues in yourself and others before you can make appropriate changes. The most common symptoms include:
Fatigue
Irritability
Difficulty concentrating
Feelings of isolation
Loss of interest in activities
Disrupted sleep patterns
Changes in appetite
Low energy levels
To identify winter blues in yourself and others, pay close attention to any behavioral changes. Listen closely to what you and others are saying.
The Connection Between Seasonal Depression and Suicide Risk
It's easy to lose hope when you spend so much time feeling isolated, sad, and alone. You begin to feel like nothing will ever feel good again, so why bother? The lack of sunshine, holiday pressure, and less time spent socializing can increase feelings of sadness and despair. You might also be experiencing burnout and using substances to cope with it.
If you begin notice these feelings, there are things you can do to help before it becomes a crisis. Reach out for help and foster open conversations with friends, family, and possibly a professional about your mental health. Support is out there, and you only need to ask. You are not alone. If you're having suicidal thoughts, a crisis line or other immediate support system can help you through it.
5 Self-Care Strategies to Beat the Winter Blues
One way to help keep the winter blues at bay is to prioritize your mental health. Self-care is a great way to do this. You might wonder what self-care can look like for you. Here's a look at five self-care strategies to support positive mental health and reduce stress and anxiety.
Light Therapy and Spending Time Outdoors
Warm sunshine makes you feel good. It's the Vitamin D that you get from it. During winter, take advantage of daylight hours to get some sunshine — even if you have to sit in your car and enjoy it streaming through the windows. Talk a walk on your lunch break, enjoy your coffee outside in the morning, go snowshoeing, skiing or snowboarding. You can also try light therapy lamps.
Warmth and Relaxation
Warm air and water offer many benefits to prevent the winter blues. A hot bath can help reduce stress in your body and relieve aches or pains. You can also use:
Saunas
Therapy tubs
Steam rooms
Swimming in a heated pool
These can improve circulation, reduce tension, and boost overall well-being.
Mindful Scheduling During the Holidays
No is a two-letter, one-syllable word that seems almost impossible to say when holiday requests come in. Try to pick the functions you want to attend and politely refuse any additional requests. It’s OK to set boundaries, such as you won't stay longer than an hour or you can't add another party to your calendar. Lastly, you can craft a schedule that isn't overcrowded and give yourself permission and time to rest during the holidays.
Healthy Lifestyle Habits
Nutrition, regular exercise, limited use of substances, and adequate sleep are the best weapons for combating the winter blues. If you don’t have time to schedule a workout or spend the day outside, that’s OK. Gentle movement, including stretching, yoga, or walking, can boost your energy and improve your mood.
Seeking Support and Staying Connected
Friends, family, or professional support are only a call away. Please seek support when you need it. Nurturing these relationships helps reduce your feelings of loneliness and isolation.
More Quick Self-Care Ideas for Cold Winter Days
During the busy winter season, it might not seem possible to take time for self-care, but self-care can be easier than you think. Here are a few quick ideas:
Take a few minutes to breathe deep, ground your feet and be present in the moment.
Indulge in a cup of hot chocolate or other treat you enjoy.
Go out to lunch with a friend you haven't seen in ages.
Practice meditation and/or gratitude.
Take a screen break and read a chapter of a book or an article you’ve been saving.
Building Resilience for the Winter Months
Resilience is your ability to bounce back from a stressful or changing situation. As you experience winter blues, resilience can help you manage stress and the emotional challenges you experience during the colder months.
You can build resilience in many ways, including the self-care suggestions above, practicing gratitude, maintaining a hopeful outlook, and setting small, manageable goals. Do not underestimate the value of small daily actions, as they can provide a sense of purpose and offer long-term well-being.
Supporting Someone Struggling With Winter Blues
Even if you don't struggle with winter blues, you can be a supportive friend or family member for those who do. Active listening, empathy, and patience are helpful for friends struggling with this condition. You can help normalize seeking professional help and provide local and national resources, such as Your Hope Center, 988, peer support and Vail Health Behavioral Health. Try not make dismissive comments, including "Just cheer up," and avoid judgmental statements or comments.
Minimize Winter Blues This Year
Now that you know how important self-care is to reduce your stress and help improve your overall mood, you can experiment and discover the best self-care option for you. When you recognize the signs of winter blues in others and yourself, it will be easier to be proactive, seek help, and support others. With the right tools, you can control your symptoms and navigate the winter season with a fresh outlook.